They are a path to sobriety that can bring relief to me, this suffering addict, like. Fifth step guide step 5 admitted to god, to ourselves, and to. Go back to these questions and include them in your inventory. Sex and love addiction the following list is a thought starter to help identify your habits of thoughts and feelings in the area of sex and love addiction. I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.
Sometimes it is healing for me to reveal these secret instances to someone. This is a list of questions for working the 12 step program for recovery. Slaa literature represents the experience, strength and hope of a large number of us who have recovered from the same problems in our sex and love lives that you are experiencing. Sex and love addicts anonymous is a twelve step, twelve tradition oriented fellowship, based on the model pioneered by alcoholics anonymous. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Celebrate recovery 12 steps and biblical comparisons 1. Steps by the big book step 2 steps by the big book. W pomona, california meeting march 20,1989 before answering each set of questions, read the. Greater detroit aa produced this early 12 steps worksheets. Service i try to help other alcoholicsaddicts, and. Write about your will and how it has gotten in the way of your recovery. Showing top 8 worksheets in the category aa step 1. These questions are designed to assist members of the h. We admitted we were powerless over our addictions and compulsive behaviors, that our lives had become unmanageable.
This step should contain enough details to convince me. The concept is not to give a full, in depth analysis of what the steps are, but to give an overview of what the steps might do. The following questions are suggested as a guide in working this step. I also included a basic text pdf i found online here just the other day. Prepare to apologize to everyone for everything affected by your being so fucked up.
First step to recovery a guide to working the first step, p. It is as if he is using the 12step as a kind of justification of his sobrietybywithdrawl theory instead of giving practical advise as to how to work them. Sponsees must have completed their fifth step with their sponsor before embarking on the following steps. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. The only glitch is in order to understand it you must have a basic understand of the alcoholics anonymous 12 step way of working the steps. Al kohallek has uploaded this collection, you can see even more here. Step eight worksheet 41 step five 42 step six 44 step seven 46 step eight 48 step nine 50 introducing step ten 51 step ten setups. These are the original 4th step guides and work sheetsused in the dallas b. These questions will help the member become more familiar with the steps that are the keys to. Remember that laa is a 12 step program and that you have a higher power to guide you. Slaa shareaday april 9, 2011 building healthy relationships in. Fourth step inventory introduction to the 4th step inventory. Slaa questions steps six through twelve postfifth step written by step sponsors of the monday night oah. Love addicts anonymous fourth step inventory guide 2008 love addicts anonymous draft t he point of the 4th step inventory is to take a hard look at yourself and decide what you want to keep and what you want to get rid of.
This means that only people who consider themselves to be members of s. Some of the worksheets displayed are first step work, 12 step work questions, please clearly to prevent any, step 1 work, into the 12 steps of recovery, the twelve step program, the narcotics anonymous step working guide, the program. W pomona, california meeting march 20,1989 before answering each set of questions, read the appropriate step chapter in the aa 12 x 12. Most can be located by googling whatever your particular issue is and 12step fellowship. You are invited to pick those questions that seem most relevant to your recovery and answer them to the best of your ability. Some of the worksheets displayed are first step work, step 1 work, step one, resentment inventory prompt, 2nd step and 3rd work, twelve steps, aas 12 steps including powerful, a twelve step workbook. When am i most likely 53 step ten a spiritual road maps 56 step ten daily journal worksheet 58 step ten daily journal sample worksheet 59 step eleven louis affirmation supplement 63 60. Instead they read the 12 and 12 and hope and recovery. Sex and love addicts anonymous is a twelve step, twelve tradition oriented. This means that only people who consider themselves to be members of. The slaa group in our town no longer attempt to read this basic text.
Step 12 having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs. Sex and love addictions al kohallek does some inventory. The literature you are viewing is a large file and may take a few minutes to load. Fifth step guide step 5 admitted to god, to ourselves, and. We recover from sex andor love addiction or avoidanceanorexia by sharing experience, strength, and hope using online chat.
For i have the desire to do what is good, but i cannot carry it out. The twelve steps of alcoholics anonymous, adapted by sexaholics anonymous, are the greatest force yet found in battling addictions of any kind. How to be an adult in relationships, david richo other slaa. And in truly working the program, then you can gain the benefits of 12 step recovery. The twelve steps and traditions of sa sexaholics anonymous. It is here that we know whether or not we really took steps 1, 2 and 3.
Most of the work is in thinking about the answers, dredging up the pertinent recollections, and making notes, so that i can write it out. Next we launched out on a course of vigorous action, the first step of which is a personal housecleaning, which many of us had never attempted. Beginning in the early 1980s, we began receiving twelve step guides and step worksheets along with requests that we develop a standard set of guides for the na fellowship to use in working. In this way, you can better keep track of truly working your 12 step program. People father step mother step sisters step brothers step aunts uncles cousins clergy police lawyers judges doctors employers employees coworkers in.
To help us work the twelve steps, cocaine anonymous uses a text entitled alcoholics anonymous, commonly referred to as the big book. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of god as we understood god. Resentment inventory prompt sheet here is a list of people, institutions and principles that may be helpful in your resentment inventory. Jan 28, 2014 actually, there are many 12step recovery programs out there for many types of addictions or issues relating to relationships, incest, gambling, food, sex, drugs, debt, alcoholism, etc. Those using mobile devices may encounter problems if your device does not have sufficient memory. Taken separately, these practices can bring much relief and benefi t. The idea for this piece of literature came from the narcotics anonymous fellowship itself. Sex and love addicts anonymous is a twelve step, traditionoriented fellowship based on the model pioneered by alcoholics anonymous. Through long and painful experience, we came to realize that we were powerless over our sexual thoughts and behaviors and that our preoccupation with sex was causing progressively severe adverse consequences for us, our families, and our friends. We have a list of all persons we have harmed and to whom we are willing to make amends. The fourth column, wrongs section will be of particular use.
Admitted to god, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Anybody, or any institutions you have harmed, add to a list. Cocaine anonymous world services a guide to the 12 steps. Our developing a relationship with a power greater than ourselves which can guide and sustain us in recovery.
Made a decision to turn our will and our life to the care of god as we understood him. Sex and love addicts anonymous is a twelve step, twelve traditionori. I find that its very important to go over your step 8 list with a sponsor or other 12 step member that has worked all the steps someone whom you trust for direction. The only glitch is in order to understand it you must have a basic understand of the alcoholics anonymous 12 step. This pamphlet contains a description of one method for taking the twelve steps of cocaine anonymous. Greater cincinnati ohio and northern kentucky augustine fellowship of sex and love addicts anonymous. First step to recovery a guide to working the first step. There is no step 9 worksheet, as this is a step that needs to be made to the persons we have harmed. Then for each item or person on the list note the name and. In the saa fellowship, there are many different ways to work the twelve steps and numerous traditions governing such work. Sex and love addicts anonymous fellowshipwide services. To continue to take personal inventory, fold a sheet of.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were. It is as if he is using the 12 step as a kind of justification of his sobrietybywithdrawl theory instead of giving practical advise as to how to work them. Permission to adapt and reprint the twelve steps and twelve traditions does not mean that aaws has approved the contents, of this publication, nor that aaws agrees with the views expressed herein. First step guide we admitted that we were powerless over lust that our lives had become unmanageable. We admitted we were powerless over sex and love addiction that our lives had become unmanageable.
Showing top 8 worksheets in the category 12 step recovery. Go through the whole list first marking the questions that cause you to have a strong reaction, good or bad. Fifth step guide step 5 admitted to god, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Though our decisionstep 3 was a vital and crucial step, it could have little permanent effect unless at once fast followed by a. This, the newcomer thinks, is just about the last straw. The twelve steps and traditions are adapted with permission of alcoholics anonymous world services, inc. Actually, there are many 12step recovery programs out there for many types of addictions or issues relating to relationships, incest, gambling, food, sex, drugs, debt, alcoholism, etc. Some of the worksheets displayed are first step work, 12 step work questions, please clearly to prevent any, step 1 work, into the 12 steps of recovery, the twelve step program, the narcotics anonymous step. You just need the willingness to start small and build on what you have. Our practice of the twelve step program of recovery to achieve sexual and emotional sobriety. This is a list of questions for working the 12 step program for recovery from addictive behavior. If you get these 4th step worksheets anywhere else they are likely not the originals and may have been changed or altered. A step sponsor is someone who can sponsor others through steps 6 to 12 in slaa how to qualify as a step sponsor in how, you must already be a step 3 program and inventory step five sponsor, have completed or be working through steps six through twelve of the slaa how approach and have at least 30 days of backto back sobriety. This is a list of questions for working the 12 step.
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